"We need Father Rex now! Grandmonny, please call him." These were the dual cries of my two young granddaughters several years ago when they were visiting me from Amsterdam, Holland. The girls had learned to know and to love Father Rex as they spent their summers with me in Colorado.
Indeed, I did phone Father Rex at once to explain that the father of their dear friend had died. My granddaughters' parents had just called from Amsterdam to inform me and to ask me to tell the girls. My daughter wanted me to reach Father Rex to see if he could spend some time in prayer and conversation with the girls. Without knowing their parents' wish, the girls had made the same request for Father Rex.
Their friend who had died was Jewish. The father's son had grown up with my granddaughters from infancy. My girls were in tears and beside themselves in grief. Their questions to me included: "Will our friend's father go to heaven? What happens when Jewish people die? Will God take care of them?"
I held my granddaughters close and we prayed. Within 30 minutes, Father Rex arrived. Both girls ran to him in tears. Father Rex spoke to the girls in soft and understanding tones. He listened intently to their concerns of grief. The three prayed, spent time in silence and talked for an hour. Then, my older granddaughter looked up at Father Rex and said, "I think God sent you. Is that right?"
In appreciation for Father Rex,
Elise Elise Murphy Rowe
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